Life is so fragile! What tragic loss we felt in the
untimely death of Dr. Forrest Pollock, esteemed pastor of Bell Shoals Baptist
Church, and his 13-year-old son, Preston. I spoke to Forrest just days ago
about moving into and dedicating the new Worship Center. He was excited and
extremely grateful to God and the wonderful family of faith at Bell Shoals. His
last words to me, “Come down and I’ll show you around, you are welcome any
time.”
The crisis experience of life, at least for the moment,
cracks the defensive façade of what one writer calls, “the pseudo-omnipotence”
that most of us wear. We are suddenly confronted with life’s brevity and our
vulnerability. Crisis brings into focus an awareness of our mortality. Anxiety
becomes reality.
Part of our Christian faith is wrapped up in how we
handle the anxiety of a devastating moment. We move rapidly to the ultimate
reflection of life. The question to ask in these moments is not, “Why?” but
“What?” Not, “Why did this happen?” But, “What do I learn from the experience?”
What
must we learn in the moment of crisis and extreme pain? The experience should
expedite our spiritual growth not diminish it. We must live out our belief
system to the world and to each other. Our beliefs must be reflected in living
an authentic life-style.
Crisis experiences should renew our trust in Jesus
Christ and maintain our hope in the midst of tragedy. We need to grieve. And we
must also “experience the eternal in the midst of time.”
We
learn to rely on the caring community that helps us beyond the moment of
tragedy and nurtures and sustains us as we make the journey of faith that will
integrate and energize our life. Such a community will continually affirm that
we are valued by a God who understands and loves us.
We
must affirm in bold and compassionate tones: Jesus is Lord!