Point-of-View
The pastor you may never see on television, but should
By JERRY WAUGH
Special to Florida Baptist Witness
Published October 23, 2003
Ministers are periodically in the news but rarely for good
reasons. Many times, negative clergy coverage is justified.
Who can forget Jimmy Swaggart, Jim and Tammy Bakker or even
closer to home in Florida, the Rev. Henry Lyons. Most recently,
the Catholic church has had to deal with moral failures among
some of its clergy.
All of these high profile, bubble-bursting stories can leave
some with a skeptical view of ministers. However, it's important
to remember that just because some clergy have had major moral
failures, that doesn't mean all clergy are that way.
Even if 10 percent of the ministers in America have had moral
failures, that means 90 percent have not. These are men that have
never been unfaithful to their wives, have never harmed a child
and have never embezzled a penny from the church. These are the
ministers who are in your wedding pictures, who dedicated your
children to God, who visited you in the hospital, who counseled
you when you needed direction, who did the funeral services of
your loved ones, who got out of bed in the middle of the night
when there was a crisis, and who every Sunday, point you toward
God.
Because this describes most ministers, October is designated
as Clergy Appreciation Month, a special time that churches set
aside each year to honor their pastors for their hard work,
sacrificial dedication and caring lives.
There are three things you can do to express appreciation this
month to your pastor. One, tell him how you feel in writing. A
spoken compliment is always welcome, but a written one can be
read over and over again. What do you appreciate about your
pastor? Put it in writing and mail it to him or give it to him on
Sunday.
Two, let your pastor know that you are praying for him.
Pastors usually carry more burdens than most people know. He may
have a winsome smile on Sundays, but I guarantee you there are
times when his heart is very heavy. Pastors continually battle
discouragement. People often put a measuring stick up to the
pastor, his ministry and his family. If a minister has avoided
moral failures, I honestly give part of the credit to his church
members holding him up in prayer.
Third, if possible, do something for your pastor as a church.
Sunday, the church where I pastor had all the pastoral staff come
forward and all of us were presented with gift certificates to
our favorite restaurants. The people then gave us a warm round of
applause. It was a way the whole church could say, "Thank
you, Pastor."
We all know there are no perfect pastors. Sometimes pastors
can be cantankerous, forgetful and stubborn. But if, overall, he
is faithful to God, teaches from the Word and loves people, he
should be honored during Clergy Appreciation Month. As the Bible
says in 1 Timothy 5:17, those who direct the affairs of the
church are worthy of honor. They may never be on CNN, Fox's News
Network, or Larry King Live for viewers to hear about the lives
that have been helped and changed as God worked through him. But
they won't mind, because one more thing you can appreciate about
most pastors is they live not for the applause of men, but for
the applause of God.
The Rev. Jerry Waugh is the senior pastor of Northcliffe
Baptist Church in Spring Hill.
Editors note: October is Pastor
Appreciation Month. Please take advantage of this opportunity to
show your gratitude to your pastor(s). Ideas can be found at:
www.christianitytoday.com/holidays/clergy/.